We all have the opportunity to create whatever we want. At first this seems to be so very hard. As we learn to look into our own life, who we are, what we want and where we want to be, we get the chance to grow.
Having the time to concentrate and think about what makes you ‘YOU’ is important. We all have things in our life that we would like to have been different or to have the skills to have done them differently.
We only know what we know! We can’t change without recognition that we can change things.
We are a product of where we have come from and what our learning and experiences have been.
So, I ask you to think about these questions below so you can start to see where you would like your life to be different from the experiences you have had so far. All these experiences have brought you to where you are now.
Ponder them and reflect where you have been and where you want to go.
Where are you now?
Where have you been?
Where do you want to be in the future?
As we start to look deeper into where we have been up until now, and commence looking into the future to what we want, we need to start to vision who and what we would like to be and what we would like to create.
Related: “Reflecting on what life has been”
To do this we need to ask ourselves some serious questions. Understanding who we are, where we want to go, what we expect from our future self and how we want to get there is the next step.
So again, I am going to ask you to consider ‘WHO’ you would like to become?
WHY would you want to become that person?
Having a Coach or a Mentor can help support you to move forward to becoming what you want.
Do you have a coach/mentor and would you like to emulate them?
Why do you want to emulate them?
To become the person you would like to become will take effort on your part. It is important to know what you need to do to become that person. Knowing and understanding yourself and your personal assets will help with this.
Related: “Is Self-Reflection GOOD for you?”
What are your greatest personal assets?
What do you like best about yourself?
What would you like to change now about you and in your life?
Where do you feel your greatest fears and powerlessness are?
Where and why do you lack self-confidence?
Do you feel you have a lack of self-knowledge, confidence and choice, and if so, why?
Would you like to be more self-aware, open and accepting so you have a better perspective and choice in your life?
Do you trust you and your intuition as your guide through your experiences?
Would you like to change any of the above in your life? If so, what would make the most difference to you?
We all have within us the power to create anything we want. Finding how to do it and knowing the skillset and maybe the learning necessary are the next challenge.
All the above is food for thought, if you want to grow and move forward.
As I have said before, it is not easy to do. It takes time and work on your part to change your life to be a better you.
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